This week I received the heartbreaking news that a special person in our community has passed away.
Our friend Shrina has left us and I am devastated by her loss.
Read more below.
Haus of FGV
Episode 59 of the Podcast Out Now
Need to laugh to stop yourself from crying because of the state of the world?
Take a listen to the latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) podcast with me and Josh.
In episode 59, we chat about:
- nationalism and how people might feel proud of community without hating others
- my obsessesion with vampires
- the cost of medicine and how UK is heading to a US-style price gouging
- London geography
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You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!
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Let’s Talk About Nationalism
One of the things that has been swirling around my mind lately is the difference between celebrating who we are as a community and the far more troubling rise of nationalism.
On the surface they can sometimes look similar. Both can involve waving flags, singing songs, and shouting loudly about identity. But in practice, they couldn’t be further apart.
Read more below.
Ranting About UK Trains
There was a time when I would jump on a train without thinking twice and head to another town or city. I adored discovering vegan cafés, supporting independent vegan businesses, and turning up at vegan events all over the country.
Those trips were always a highlight, a way to feel connected, and an opportunity to share what’s going on beyond London on this blog.
But things have changed.
Read more below.
Ep 58 of the Podcast out now
The year trundles on and the podcast trundles on.
In episode 58 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and I talk about a lot of nonsense, share some interesting (to us) topics, and go on a whole rant about the cost of medication.
We reminisce about visiting NYC, talk about the legacy of Blondie, and I quiz Josh on which clebrities are alive and which celebrities are dead.
Take a listen/watch via these links below.
Watch/listen via YouTube:
Listen via Apple Podcasts:
Listen/watch via Spotify:
You can browse older episodes on the YouTube, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify channels.
Follow Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) on Instagram and Threads.
If you appreciate my blog posts and the work I do to support vegan business and challenge injustice, please consider making a one time small donation of a couple of quid online here. You might also be in the position to sponsor my work on an regular basis via Patreon.
You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!
Follow me on Instagram, Threads, TikTok, Facebook, and Blue Sky.
Fabulous Gay Vegan
Hey friends
For the past fifteen years some of you have been following me through ups and downs, through activism, celebrations, and also through my own personal challenges. One of the biggest struggles I have spoken openly about is compulsive eating disorder and the impact it has had on my health. This has never been easy to share, but honesty has always felt like the best way to stop myself carrying shame that doesn’t belong on my shoulders.
Just over a year ago I began using Mounjaro with medical support. In that time I have lost a significant amount of weight. The decision to make this change has been about more than numbers on a scale. My motivation is to protect both my physical and mental health, to do everything I can to avoid long term illnesses such as diabetes, and to reduce the chances of heart problems later in life. It has been a big adjustment, and I have tried to stay as transparent as possible on my blog, social channels, and podcast because I know many of you value that honesty and because it helps me feel less alone.
Now I find myself with a question for you. I am only one kilogram away from moving out of the obese category, according to NHS guidelines, and into the overweight category. I am not saying you will see me strutting down a Parisian catwalk anytime soon, but my appearance is already drastically different from how most of you have known me over the past few years and beyond.
That brings me to the name Fat Gay Vegan.
Ep 56 Of The Podcast Out Now
How do you feel about AI?
Of course artificial intelligence as a tool has been in our lives for a long time, but in 2025 it appears to be running wild.
In episode 56 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and I discuss AI and how it is making it difficult to navigate the online world with any sense of certainty.
Watch and listen via the following platforms.
Watch/listen on YouTube:
Listen on Apple Podcasts:
Watch/listen on Spotify:
You can browse older episodes on the YouTube, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify channels.
Follow Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) on Instagram and Threads.
If you appreciate my blog posts and the work I do to support vegan business and challenge injustice, please consider making a one time small donation of a couple of quid online here. You might also be in the position to sponsor my work on an regular basis via Patreon.
You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!
Follow me on Instagram, Threads, TikTok, Facebook, and Blue Sky.
New Interview With FGV
I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by the wonderful Jordi.
Jordi is someone I’ve known for many years. He is a vegan activist, a journalist, and an attendee of my FGV events.
Jordi has a new podcast/vlog series in which he interviews vegans while walking the streets before stopping for a cup of tea at a vegan or vegan-friendly cafe.
Read more below.
Three Years of Queer Open Mic
Three years ago, my friend Josh and I sat down and decided the London LGBTQ community needed something. We needed a place to express. To perform. To create. To listen. To connect. So we started Queer Open Mic.
That was back in 2022. We had no idea where it would go, but we knew what we wanted it to feel like. We wanted it to be safe. We wanted it to be welcoming. We wanted people to turn up with songs, poems, guitars, jokes, and voices.
And we wanted them to leave feeling like they’d been seen and that they belong.
Fast forward to 2025 and Queer Open Mic is still going strong. In fact, it’s thriving. We now call The Cock Tavern in Kennington our home. It’s a proper south London gay bar with heart, and it’s the perfect setting for a night that is all about lifting up community voices.
Read more below.
Gaza Destruction Is An Absolute Nightmare
You know me. I write about vegan pizza, social events, and eating snacks on trains.
I bang on about tofu like it’s going out of fashion and tell you when your local supermarket has added another fake meat to the shelves. I’m all about helping people feel celebrated in their compassionate choices.
But I don’t yell about not eating animals for the hell of it. I do it because I want to reduce my contribution to unnecessary suffering. Because I think kindness is political.
And that’s why I’m writing today.
Read more below.
Imade of Palestinians at market in Gaza strip in 1956 (Moshe Marlin Levin/Meitar Collection/National Library of Israel/The Pritzker Family National Photography Collection)