A Personal Update

Not everything on this blog is about vegan food.

I’ve been writing on this platform for 15 years. When you write with passion, belief, and honesty for that amount of time, elements of your personal story make their way into the space no matter if you intend for it to happen or not.

Over the years as FGV, I’ve shared my concerns for the future of the planet, my journeys and relationships, and my physical and mental health struggles. I’ve enjoyed sharing personal insights with my readers and I feel it is this openness that has kept so many of you connected and coming back for a decade and a half.

In the spirit of (over)sharing, I want to take a slight detour from business as usual today to share with you a personal story that means a lot to me.

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Vegans in the Armed Forces

Today I came across a news story that made me pause.

The RAF has announced that air crews who identify as vegan will now be able to wear uniforms and boots that don’t use animal products. You can read the full piece behind the Telegraph paywall.

My feelings are a bit complicated.

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A Love Letter To Tofu

Sometimes tofu gets a rough deal.

When people joke about veganism, they often laugh about sad blocks of white stuff with zero flavour.

But here’s the truth. Tofu is one of the greatest foods on the planet and it is delicious, nutritious, versatile, and affordable.

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Veganism Is Not About Restriction

One of the most common things I hear when someone finds out I am vegan is a variation on the same tired question. “But don’t you miss cheese?”. Sometimes they say bacon, sometimes it’s chocolate.

Whatever the word is, the sentiment is the same. People think veganism is about restriction and missing out on enjoyment. About what we can’t do. About what we have lost.

It’s often said in a sympathetic tone. Poor old me, right?

But I’ve never looked at it that way. To me, veganism is about what we choose to do. It is about the compassionate choices that shape our plates and our shopping habits… and how it feels great to make those choices!

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Blogging From a Tablet

This is a first for FGV.

I am experiencing the delights of attempting to write and post a blog entry using an iPad. It is not a lot of fun.

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Goodbye to a Friend

This week I received the heartbreaking news that a special person in our community has passed away.

Our friend Shrina has left us and I am devastated by her loss.

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Episode 59 of the Podcast Out Now

Need to laugh to stop yourself from crying because of the state of the world?

Take a listen to the latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) podcast with me and Josh.

In episode 59, we chat about:

  • nationalism and how people might feel proud of community without hating others
  • my obsessesion with vampires
  • the cost of medicine and how UK is heading to a US-style price gouging
  • London geography

You can watch/listen via YouTube:


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You can browse older episodes on the YouTubeApple Podcasts, or Spotify channels.

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If you appreciate my blog posts and the work I do to support vegan business and challenge injustice, please consider making a one time small donation of a couple of quid online here. You might also be in the position to sponsor my work on an regular basis via Patreon.

You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!

Follow me on InstagramThreadsTikTokFacebook, and Blue Sky.

Let’s Talk About Nationalism

One of the things that has been swirling around my mind lately is the difference between celebrating who we are as a community and the far more troubling rise of nationalism.

On the surface they can sometimes look similar. Both can involve waving flags, singing songs, and shouting loudly about identity. But in practice, they couldn’t be further apart.

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Ranting About UK Trains

There was a time when I would jump on a train without thinking twice and head to another town or city. I adored discovering vegan cafés, supporting independent vegan businesses, and turning up at vegan events all over the country.

Those trips were always a highlight, a way to feel connected, and an opportunity to share what’s going on beyond London on this blog.

But things have changed.

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Ep 58 of the Podcast out now

The year trundles on and the podcast trundles on.

In episode 58 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and I talk about a lot of nonsense, share some interesting (to us) topics, and go on a whole rant about the cost of medication.

We reminisce about visiting NYC, talk about the legacy of Blondie, and I quiz Josh on which clebrities are alive and which celebrities are dead.

Take a listen/watch via these links below.

Watch/listen via YouTube:


Listen via Apple Podcasts:


Listen/watch via Spotify:


You can browse older episodes on the YouTubeApple Podcasts, or Spotify channels.

Follow Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) on Instagram and Threads.


If you appreciate my blog posts and the work I do to support vegan business and challenge injustice, please consider making a one time small donation of a couple of quid online here. You might also be in the position to sponsor my work on an regular basis via Patreon.

You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!

Follow me on InstagramThreadsTikTokFacebook, and Blue Sky.