Stranger Things, Veganuary & Violence

It’s a strange mix of topics on the podcast this week.

Josh and I chat about our reactions to the Stranger Things finale, the terrifying reality of violence in the USA, and the power of Veganuary as a form of vegan activism.

Bad quality video and audio. Often bad takes on topics. But we keep making these episodes of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) regardless.

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Do You Know My Friend Josh?

Today I wanted to take a few moments of your time to draw attention to a song called Empty Seat and the person behind it.

The song feels especially poignant to me because it was written and performed by my friend Josh, who many of you will know was my partner for twenty years. The song is an emotional look at the end of our relationship as it morphed into an ongoing friendship and how Josh managed to process the emotions around it.

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Microwave Ovens & Best of 2025

Time flies when the world is falling apart!

The first episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) podcast for 2026 is out now.

This week Josh and I chat about our top picks for music and film in 2025, how we feel about microwave ovens, and the complete shambles of the global political landscape.

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Ep 75 – Golden Gaytimes & Christmas Number Ones

I’m back from my tip to Australia, so Josh and I have found time to get back into the swing of the Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) podcast.

Episode 75 finds us chatting about new vegan restaurants in London, vegan versions of non-vegan foods that were childhood favourites, the cultural significance of Christmas number one songs in the UK, and the recent terror event in Bondi.

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Ep 72 of the podcast out now – vegan food in Paris!

It’s a very Paris-heavy episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) this week.

I was just in the French capital to see Lady Gaga in concert but of course I made time to eat in a few different vegan restaurants. Josh and I give a rundown of all of our favourites from the trip, as well as some of the misses.

Of course we also spend time complaining about the Parisian weather.

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Ep 70 of the podcast out now

Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) is back for another weekly episode.

This week, Josh and I chat about the legenday Cyndi Lauper and her induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, Mexican megastar Juan Gabriel, and the hot topic of banning mobile phones in UK schools.

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You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!

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Ep 69 of the podcast out now

Tuesday. Tuesday. Gotta get down on TUESDAY… or something like that.

It’s time for another episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), the podcast in which Josh and I chat about random topics and act like we know what we are talking about.

This week we get inloved with the cultural legacy of Absolutely Fabulous, why I love Manchester, and the disgraceful reality of the British royal family.

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Ep 67 of the podcast out now

This week’s episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong) is a bit of a downer!

Josh and I chat about my obsession with 9/11, the death of Father Mychal Judge, and the ongoing health problems for people caught up in the toxic dust generated by the Twin Towers falling down.

We also chat about the ongoing crisis in Gaza, as well as my love for legendary 80s movie The Lost Boys.

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Ep 66 of the podcast out now

There is a lot of reminiscing on this week’s episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong).

Josh and I remember the legendary TV series The Inbetweeners ahead of a rumoured reboot. We chat musical memories including D:Ream and Aqua. And I get to rave about one of the best vampire movies of all time, Blacula.

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You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!

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Episode 63 of the podcast out now

Tuesday is podcast day!

In the latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and I chat about how class war is very real in 2025. Politicians and media want us to blame our crappy lives on Trans people, migrants, and refugees when really the problem is capitalism and wealth hoarding.

As usual it’s a laugh a minute!

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You can order my book ‘Fat Gay Vegan: Eat, Drink and Live Like You Give a Sh!t’ online now. It has been out a while now but is still a good read. You can also listen to the Audiobook read by me!

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